First Soccer Game at Age 5: What Parents Should Expect

Anna Tisell
Sep 15
2 min read

Series: My 5-Year-Old’s Soccer Journey (Week 2 of 12)

This past Saturday, our 5-year-old played in his first soccer game at age 5 — and it was everything you might expect: excitement, learning moments, water breaks, and even a funny own goal. If your child is about to start their first season of recreational soccer, here’s what parents should expect on game day.

What a First Soccer Game at Age 5 Looks Like

Game Format → Most recreational leagues for 5-year-olds play two 20-minute halves. With 8 kids on a roster, each player gets to rotate in and out for equal playing time.
Referees at This Age → Games are often led by a young or beginner referee who helps guide the kids, reminding them where to go and keeping the match safe and fun.
Learning Moments → Don’t be surprised if your team scores on the wrong goal. It’s common at this age because kids are still learning direction. Some leagues even place a stuffed animal or sign behind the correct goal to help.
Hydration Breaks → In hot weather, refs will stop for quick water breaks in the middle of each half. There’s also a short halftime (around 5 minutes).
Snack Time → After the game, families often rotate bringing snacks. It’s a tradition that keeps the kids excited and builds team spirit.

Why the First Game Matters for Young Players

For 5-year-olds, youth soccer isn’t about the score — it’s about:

Teamwork → Players start learning to pass, call for the ball, and support each other.
Skill Practice Under Pressure → Even if they don’t score, they try dribbling, tackling, and shooting in real play.
Resilience → Mistakes (like own goals or tripping) are opportunities to learn and grow.
Joy & Confidence → For our son, the best part was having the whole family cheer for him after years of watching his older brothers.

What Parents Should Expect at a First Soccer Gameirst soccer game at age 5,

Kids may forget which way to score — and that’s okay.
Water breaks are essential, especially in hot weather (always pack an extra bottle).
Effort matters more than goals — celebrate running, listening, and trying.
Post-game snacks are often the highlight of the day.

Coach Grandpa’s Tip

“At this age, games are just practice with a jersey on. Parents should cheer effort, encourage teamwork, and let the coach do the coaching.”

Part of a Bigger Journey

Our son didn’t score this game, but he fought hard, won the ball from the other team, and ran toward the goal with determination. That confidence — and the memory of being celebrated — matters more than the scoreboard.

This post is part of my “My 5-Year-Old’s Soccer Journey” series, where I share what it’s really like to start recreational soccer.

👉 Next week: Rec vs. Club Soccer: What’s the Difference?